August 1, 2011

  • Why are you all making things harder on yourselves?

     

    I know I have probably said this a million times but seriously, what is with couples these days? They fight all the time and cause themselves so much pointless/unnecessay pain and drama. Why make yourself unhappy if you dont need to be? Sometimes I wonder if they do it for attention or because they are bored with their relationship. Its so dumb! 1- Don't date someone for status or attention. You should date someone because you like spending time with them and they make you happy not because of all the people who will be jealous or all the attention you can get. 2- Don't create issues that aren't really there. I see people having fun at first and then out of the blue they start putting expectations and labels on things. Things they dont even care about! Like when a girl starts dating a guy and doesnt care that he goes out with his guy friends once a week but then after they are together a while she feels like they are a serious couple so they have to act like it, which means no more guys nights.

    They get mad over stuff they dont care about because they feel like they are supposed to. Its so dumb. Who cares what other people think. Why are you letting them define what your relationship should or shouldnt be? Just be happy and do you, screw what everyone else thinks. Another big thing I see girls being the main culprits of is trying to slap labels on stuff. If a guy makes a romantic gesture or does sweet things for her all of a sudden she wants to know what it means. Are they together, are they not, are they serious... or they do that, "well we have been in a serious relationship for such and such amount of time so we need to get married". Why does there have to be labels and all these stupid rules and stuff? Whatever happened to spontanity and living in the moment? I dont know why the rest of the planet is so set on creating problems for themselves but I am going to find a guy who I have a great time with. One that I can go on adventures with and cuddle up with at night. I'm not going to play by ridiculous relationship rules and I'm not going to push him to get married just because we have reached some deadline. It'll be all about whats fun and what makes us happy. I don't know how things will turn out but thats what living in the moment is all about right?